The word True Love is very beautiful. We all want someone in our life who will love us unconditionally. We can do everything for that person. But there is a question whether what we call True Love is as real as we think it is. It is not an illusion.
First of all, a question comes, why a person will love another person?
If we try to answer it, then in one and a half cases, if girls get any benifits from a boy, if their desire is fulfilled, such as if that boy is rich, handsome, healthy, fit. , mentally stable, controlabel then girls will like that type of boy. Again in the case of boys, normally 50% boys want only one girl, among the remaining 45-50% boys choose some girls, if the girls are good looking, healthy, mentally stable then those 45-50% boys like those girls. One thing is understood from here that love is a condition.
Scarecity :-
Many of us want cars like bmw, ferrari, rollroys, the reason is not that these cars can be driven at a speed of 200, the reason is that these cars are rare, not everyone has them, if I have them, then I am a great person. In this way, if a girl likes a boy and if that boy is handsome, rich, attractive, if he does not give time to that girl, if many girls like that boy, then that boy becomes more desirable because that boy is a scare resource. Because of this, that girl likes that boy more.
Attachment :-
To understand this thing, we need to understand our brain's neurosystem reward pathway. Now you are doing something and if dopamine is released in your reward pathway for doing that work, then you will get pleasure, fun and do that work again and again to get pleasure like you If you get pleasure from taking a drug for the first time, then you will take it again and again and become addicted. Similarly, if you are in a relationship and have been with that girl or boy for a long time, then you will become attached to him or her and you will become his addict. This is attachment.
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