Are you living day to day ?

Just imagine, a person is pushing a big stone up a mountain, this is what happened to Sisyphus. Sisyphus was an ancient Greek king. Sisyphus is said to have cheated death twice, because of which God got angry and punished Sisyphus by pushing a large stone up a mountain and then the stone falls back down again. To be done till infinity. When you hear about this punishment, you will surely think what kind of punishment it is, but if you think carefully, you will understand that this is a terrible punishment and this is what God gave this punishment to Sisyphus.

But friends, if we think well, we are like Sisyphus. We are also pushing stones somewhere, Sisyphus used to do the same repeated work and we also do the same repeated work. Hey, we also go to daily school, go to college, go to 9 to 5 jobs. We also do the same work daily, follow the same daily routine. Get up eat food, go to work, come to the job, eat food again and sleep and we keep doing this same thing daily. It is not punishment like Sisyphus so what else friends. But if we are happy doing this then how can we say that Sisyphus is sad. 

God thought Sisyphus would be very sad but the truth is a little different. Sisyphus is not sad doing the same work Sisyphus is very happy as we are happy doing the same daily. In the end I will tell you one thing, go to a quiet place and calmly think about it yourself, then you will understand something that you never thought about.

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Why is your existence meaningless?

Do you know that your existence has no meaning? What you do in life has no meaning. You think you have an importance in this world but the truth is very different.

We always keep ourselves in illusion. We don't want to admit the truth. Every living thing in this living world just wants to survive and reproduce so that new generation is created and this is the biggest truth. You know about a lot of things from a young age but it doesn't really make an impact. 

This is not the answer. If I tell you in simple language, then I can say suppose there are many ants on the ground, they have formed their own group and maybe there was a fight between many of them in which many ants died, will it have any impact on our life, then you will definitely not say that there is no impact on our life. 

So we are like these ants living their life on a block of Boro stone. You do a great deed or do a bad deed, it may have a little impact on the society, like the ants died in the fight, the ants have an impact on the society. But if you look closely, you will see that they are meaningless. 

This entire universe will die one day then who will remember who then no one will be alive to remember and this is the biggest truth. At the end, I will say one thing, try to be happy as long as you live, free yourself from this delusion.

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Why the greatest truth is death ?

All living beings born in this world must die one day. And this is the biggest truth. So is it meaningless to do all the work we are doing in life because one day we have to die and with it all our legacy will end.

Well we say we should have a goal in life but is this goal really that important. Tell me one thing, do we need this goal, if you want something in life, why do you want it? To be honest, these goals are not really your goals, these goals are put into your head by society.

 Everything you want in life depends on your surroundings, if you are born in a society where everyone is a big businessman then your goal in life will be I want to be a big businessman and if you are born in a middle class family and the people around you also If you are middle class then your aim will be to get a good job.

 From here let's understand that your goal in life depends on your environment, this goal is not your goal. But here one is equal that you are very rich or not, you are good or bad, one day you will die, everyone will be your legacy, the institution will end with your death and not only us, our solar system, universe will also die one day. We think we have an importance in this society in this world but really that is if we die today it doesn't matter to anyone, maybe the people close to you will feel a little sad and then they too will forget. Billions of people are born and die in this world every day. Is there any impact on your life? The answer is no. So if you think you are important then the answer is no.

 The goal that you have set in life is the goal that many other people have set and fulfilled in history, but how many of them do you remember? Maybe your next generation will not remember them anymore, and if they remember, they have already died in their lives. And this is the biggest truth you have to die one day. Death is the greatest truth.

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What is Love at First Sight ?

We all have a girl or a boy in our life whom we feel love for the first time. This person is the person for whom I can do everything. But what we call love at first sight is it really love or an illusion.

Well, when we say that I fell in love with this girl or boy at first sight, is it really love? If we try to find the answer, the answer will be that it is not love, it is attraction. We like the girl who is very beautiful at the first sight, and in the case of girls, girls like the boy who is handsome, who has a good physique. That is, if someone has good looks and physique, then we say love at first sight after seeing that boy or girl. What has become is only attraction. And this attraction is only the attraction of sex. 

Hey it may be we say it's not sex attraction but the truth is that it's sex attraction that our brain does subconsciously. Every living being in this living world wants to have sex to survive and reproduce. And it's in our DNA as much as we try not to accept it but that's really what we call love at first sight is just the desire to have sex. What is real love is not love by looking at someone's beauty, physic.

 For real love you have to stay with that person for a long time and then you will really love that person then the beauty of that person does not matter to you. You just want that person to always be good. In the end, don't love someone by looking at their beauty, body, love them by looking at their heart, because beauty will not last forever, one day you will grow old, then you will not have this beauty. Then you will be happy with someone who loves you not because of your beauty. Hope you find your true love.

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What depends on whether something is right or wrong?

In our normal life we ​​always say something is right or wrong. But this depends on what exactly is wrong. What I call right is really right and what I call wrong is really wrong. Are we under any illusions?

Well, if we try to find the answer to what we call something right or wrong, then we will say that everything that our father, mother, society has said is right and everything that has been said to be wrong is wrong. As we are told from our childhood that we have to wear clothes, we have to treat everyone well, always speak the truth, it is not good to hurt anyone and so on. 

But these all depend on a particular situation, when necessary we have to lie, when necessary we have to hurt someone, when necessary we have to take off our clothes. And in this case, what do we call it, the answer is no. Because our main goal in this world is to survive so we should do what we need to do when we need to do it. These are exactly the mistakes our society has instilled in us.

 This society has made all the rules. So you want to do something and if society says it's not good then you see if what you're doing is having a bad effect on someone else's life then you don't do it and if it doesn't have any bad effect then you do it anyway. Society says it's wrong but you do it. Because the rules of the society are there today and not tomorrow, the rules that are there today have no meaning to be there tomorrow, so you will do what you think is right. At the end, I will say one thing. Stay well

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Why do we always keep ourselves in illusion?

We want many things in life like some want to earn a lot of money, some want to be famous and many more. But what you want is what you really want and not what society is giving you against your will.

The truth is that you are in an illusion since birth. When you are born you have only one goal to survive, for that you have a house to stay, food to survive, and a person to teach you how to live in this world and this rule applies to all living beings in this world. But our society separates us from the rest of the living. Society first teaches us a language to communicate with other people. Then we will continue to fall slowly into the magic of this society. First, I will know that different people in this society do different things to reduce money. Through this money, we can buy food, shelter and clothes to survive. So far, it is okay. Because these will be useful for our survival.

But the real magic will begin now. This society will divide us into different groups, it will tell us that we are in one country, there are many other countries in this world, we will have enmity with some countries, we will have friendship with some countries. Our religion is best, other religions are not as good as our religion. Again this society will put different goals in us, then everyone will say I want to be this, I want to be that, some want to be famous, some want to be rich, thus we will get involved in another illusion. And if that goal is not fulfilled then there will be sorrow and suffering and if that goal is fulfilled then I will be happy for some time but then I will be like before again. There is a common saying, that side of the river will always be good. And it's true, we see rich, famous, successful people than us and think that their life is very good but the truth is that they are also in problems like us, they are also in this illusion, they are also in the pursuit of hapiness but there is no word, no We do not understand the value of the thing while we have it, when the thing is gone then we understand the value of the thing.

In the end, I will say one thing, come out of illusion, don't think too much about the future, think about the present, because once this time is gone, it will never come back, so try to be happy in the present. Value what you have and be happy with it, because one day everyone will. Who must die so be happy with what life has.

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What is True Love ?

The word True Love is very beautiful. We all want someone in our life who will love us unconditionally. We can do everything for that person. But there is a question whether what we call True Love is as real as we think it is. It is not an illusion.

First of all, a question comes, why a person will love another person? 

If we try to answer it, then in one and a half cases, if girls get any benifits from a boy, if their desire is fulfilled, such as if that boy is rich, handsome, healthy, fit. , mentally stable, controlabel then girls will like that type of boy. Again in the case of boys, normally 50% boys want only one girl, among the remaining 45-50% boys choose some girls, if the girls are good looking, healthy, mentally stable then those 45-50% boys like those girls. One thing is understood from here that love is a condition.

Scarecity :-

Many of us want cars like bmw, ferrari, rollroys, the reason is not that these cars can be driven at a speed of 200, the reason is that these cars are rare, not everyone has them, if I have them, then I am a great person. In this way, if a girl likes a boy and if that boy is handsome, rich, attractive, if he does not give time to that girl, if many girls like that boy, then that boy becomes more desirable because that boy is a scare resource. Because of this, that girl likes that boy more.

Attachment :-

To understand this thing, we need to understand our brain's neurosystem reward pathway. Now you are doing something and if dopamine is released in your reward pathway for doing that work, then you will get pleasure, fun and do that work again and again to get pleasure like you If you get pleasure from taking a drug for the first time, then you will take it again and again and become addicted. Similarly, if you are in a relationship and have been with that girl or boy for a long time, then you will become attached to him or her and you will become his addict. This is attachment.

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What is the purpose of our life?

We all have some purpose in life. Some want to earn a lot of money, some want to be famous, many more things, but you don't want these things, society wants to give them to you.

Every creature in this nature wants three to four to five things in its life. The first thing is to live, the second is attention, the third is sex to create the next generation. And every purpose of ours revolves around these three or four things. Some want to reduce money to survive, have sex to satisfy their peace of mind, some want to be famous to get some happiness but the truth is that you will be happy for some time by doing these things and then you will go back to the previous state, we think that if you get these things maybe We will always be happy but that happiness is for a while.

We want many things in our life but do we really want those things. The answer is no. If we think a little better, we will understand that we are doing these things for others and not for ourselves. Whatever we do in life everything is valueless.

No matter how great things you do in life or how bad things you do, there is no use in doing these things. You will die one day and then whether someone remembers you or not, good or bad does not matter. We spend our whole life for others, we think we are doing our own work but if we think carefully, these are meaningless.

There is not much difference between animals and us. They are also trying to survive and we are also trying to survive.

At the end I will say one thing, try to keep yourself happy, live for yourself. Spend time with yourself, ask yourself this question, what do I really want in life and try to find the answer, remove everything, go to a quiet place and find the answer in the infinite ocean of your mind.

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What is Love?

The question of what is love has sometimes come to our mind. It is a feeling that makes us very happy. There are many types of love, but here I will talk about the love between a lover and a lover.

Many people say that it was love at first sight. That girl fell in love with him for the first time or that boy fell in love with him for the first time. But the truth is that these are not love, they are just attraction. You will fall in love with a beautiful young woman or a handsome young man, never fall in love with an ugly young man or young woman. The truth is that nature wants us to reproduce with whom we can create our next generation. Because of that we have an attraction to the opposite sex which we call love. Many people say that love is unconditional, but none of these require conditions. In the case of girls, your brain decides which boy is right for you, who will be useful for your survival, who can support you. A boy's brain decides in one and a half cases that any girl can give birth to your healthy child. And this is the truth. This is not love, this is a way to satisfy your physical needs, which we call love

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